Udelunina; it specifically means forgetting about one’s mother, it may not
refer only to the mother but the whole family. This is umuthi that is mainly
used by women when they want to separate the men from his families,
some men use it on their women who are influenced by their families.
There are a lot of causes in this particular one, you may find that the family
of a man does not accept the fact that their son has a love partner and
suppose to have the family of his own. They may want to hold him
responsible for their own responsibilities until his women / woman see it
necessary to use Udelunina so that the man will forsake the family and
start to concentrate on the new family which is her (The woman) and her