Isichitho sesongololo / the breakup spell of a millipede
This is kind of Isichitho a very challenging one; it gives the exercise to deal with difficult feelings quite hard with every situation folding and adjusting for worse; everything folds like the millipede when it feels threatened. Your relationships adjusts and always change for worse, isichitho sesongololo/the breakup spell of a millipede always bring up the times of sad memories; you look at your current love partner you think of the bad times with the previous lover, your heart folds and you feel the mood level change in an instant and it feels bad to have him/her around, you feel the irritation like millipedes are walking all over your body with their many legs, that is isichitho sesongololo. Even if the person is trying by all means to please you, you won’t turn on or respond positively because it all feels like the irritation of many legs of millipede walking all over your body. This type of isichitho is built on the exploration of fear and anger, at one moment you are trying to find happiness at the other you come across sudden sadness everything just folds for worse.